Sunday, March 19, 2023

Kenneth Ma Reveals That the Marriage Proposal Was Full of Blunders, Has No Longing for a Wedding and Leaving It to the Female to Decide

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Kenneth Ma, who is known as hot property in the industry, has successfully proposed to his girlfriend of three years, Roxanne Tong. That silly big boy is officially being privatized. Kenneth, who has an upright appearance and is simple in his thinking, revealed that the process of the marriage proposal was full of blunders. The clever Roxanne almost discovered the signs; fortunately, Kenneth was full of sincerity, and Roxanne also laughingly said yes. He said, "I did not take too much time to plan it. There were a lot of blunders along the way because everything was done by myself. It wasn't in front of many friends to witness it. This matter occurred very simply at home with two people. Thinking back, the matter was quite funny...quite adorable and a bit romantic. When there were blunders, she started to figure it out...a crafty feeling!" A so-called quick accomplishment and no need to wait, Kenneth said that he will be holding a wedding banquet at the end of the year. Because he has no longing for a wedding, the wedding planning has been handed over to Roxanne to call the shots: "I have to finish filming 'The QUEEN of News' first...waiting for everything to be arranged by her. I don't have much of a longing for a wedding. Perhaps I filmed too many wedding scenes in TVB, so I don't have much of a special fantasy about weddings. On the contrary, she still does, so she is arranging however she wants it".

Both Personalities Hit It Off Immediately, Had the Feeling Early on That Roxanne Tong Is the 'Right Person'

In the past, Kenneth had relationships with Nancy Wu and Jacqueline Wong, but they ended up in breakups. Now, he has decided to hold hands with Roxanne for a lifetime because he already had the feeling early on that Roxanne is the 'right person': "Our lives are simple. She is a great homebody, and she doesn't go out, which is very similar to me. Watching movies and taking care of the cats, and it's a day. The life that we both pursue is very simple. After getting along for a period of time, already felt that she was quite matching [with me]". Kenneth said that he had encountered girlfriends who are difficult to deal with in the past...needed time to accommodate! On the contrary, Roxanne's personality is easy to get along with...just have to use food to appease her. Kenneth could not help but show his love during the conversation: "Did not match as well with ex-girlfriends...needed to be more accommodating, but Roxanne is easy to accommodate. Perhaps the things that we like are very similar, so there isn't much to accommodate. She would throw a tantrum, but the good thing is that it's easy to cajole [her]. She is not those girls who are a hassle. For example, I really did something wrong...apologize and buy some of the snacks that she likes for her, and then able to cajole her".

However, believe that, when managing a relationship, no matter how matching [you] are, there will always be friction in some aspect. Kenneth admitted that he has a careless personality...had experienced having a silent war for the entire day due to a trivial matter: "I always don't know what she's mad about. I am quite careless in this aspect. Sometimes need her to tell me afterward; then be more careful and smarter next time". However, sometimes when you love someone, you would unknowingly change for the other person. If you deliberately do it, there will be a day when the relationship gets worn down. Kenneth frankly said that he and Roxanne have reached the stage of 'marriage' because they have not deliberately changed each other: "Would not deliberately change each other when we get along. If there are things that can be accommodated, then [we] would accommodate. We always think that we should not change the other person, and also should not change for the other person. It's so hard...would not get along in the long run like this".

Both Have a Consensus to Have Two Children, Having the Man Work and the Woman at Home

Since the proposal, the two have formally been living together, almost seeing each other every day. Roxanne would also wait for Kenneth to come home with food already made: "We see each other every day, as we live together now, so there are a lot of things in our lifestyles that we are adjusting to. When there is no need to work, would see each other when [we] get home. She hasn't been too busy recently; a lot of the time, she is taking care of the two cats at home and waiting for me to get home". Kenneth praised Roxanne for her excellent cooking skills, dividing the labour at home. She cooks, while he washes the dishes: "She would cook for me and wait for me to come back. She knows how to make spaghetti with meat sauce, stir-fry, and soup, but I am not very good. If I am given a choice, I would choose to wash the dishes". They have even thought about how many children they would be having: "We have a consensus that we want to have two if the heavens can give them to us because we are always scared that having one would be very boring. Parents will leave when they are old; if they leave, then only him or her would be left in the world. Having a close relative in the world accompanying him or her, if there is anything, can also find another person to consult with". Kenneth revealed that, after having a child, he will do his best to make money, while Roxanne will stay at home to take care of the child: "If [we] have a child, she will probably focus on the household. Actually, she is not really willing to shoot series that take a long time; she also finds it hard".

Kenneth Ma Firmly Expresses That There Will Be No Disputes Between the Mother-in-Law and Daughter-in-Law, Reveals That Roxanne Tong Knows How to Be Romantic

Kenneth immigrated to Canada with his parents when he was younger, and he has a close relationship with his family. In Kenneth's eyes, his mom is a good-tempered and easygoing person who is easy to talk with, even revealing that he thought about bringing his mom home to live with them after getting married with Roxanne. He even expressed in a firm tone that he is not afraid of disputes between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: "Because my mom is the kind of person who is very easy to get along with. My mom's personality is also very similar to mine...is fine with whatever, and it is rare to see my mom lose her temper. She laughs at everything, so I think that there is little chance of disputes between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law". Kenneth even laughingly said that his Zen personality is influenced by his mom.

However, such a free-spirited personality did receive complaints from his girlfriend, Roxanne, as not caring about her, which dumbfounded Kenneth: "Perhaps I am also too Zen. Sometimes she would say, 'You don't even care about me; you don't love me anymore?" With no preset and suddenly spitting out such a difficult question to answer, some readers may feel that the woman is a bit unreasonable, but in Kenneth's eyes, it is a kind of adorable behavior: "I think that she is quite adorable. Those previous ones (girlfriends) were not as adorable...would not suddenly ask me one sentence, and it's the kind that is out of nowhere!"

He also highly praised Roxanne for being romantic: "I am a rather boring person. She knows how to make her other half happy; I don't really know. I am simpler...don't know how to put so much effort into doing it. Well, she is better at it, so we accommodate each other now. Would occasionally know about doing some things. Sometimes she would draw some pictures for me, and would draw a picture for no reason...would be quite happy, and it is quite sweet. It's not about buying very expensive gifts...maybe drawing something by hand, which is quite special. It seems that there is nothing much all day, and it is very ordinary, but giving such a small gift to you would actually feel as though the entire day was very splendid!"

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